Dear Kiki: How can I say I’m not the DEI teacher they need?
One reader asks how to handle the unfair emotional burden placed on her as one of a handful of BIPOC employees.
Dear Kiki
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Dear Kiki: I’m getting married and my family doesn’t approve. What should I do?
In this month’s advice column, a reader asks for ways to navigate through disapproval from parents in the process of marriage.
Dear Kiki: How do I overcome burnout while fighting against anti-Asian hate?
In this month’s advice column, a reader fights burnout while fighting against the rise of anti-Asian hate in their city.
Dear Kiki: My grandma is a victim of anti-Asian hate but my parents don’t want to report. What should I do?
In this month’s advice column, a reader struggles with their family’s hesitance to report an Asian hate incident.
Dear Kiki: How am I supposed to feel about my friend’s apathy towards the Atlanta spa shootings and anti-Asian racism?
In this month’s advice column, a reader struggles with their close friend’s indifferent attitude towards anti-Asian hate and violence.
Dear Kiki: I keep being shut out of a promotion and I feel it’s because I “don’t look the part.” Should I stick around or move on?
In this month’s advice column, a reader asks whether they should stay at their company or look elsewhere after being passed over for promotions.
Dear Kiki: I want to move out of my parents’ home, but I feel guilty. How can I balance independence and filial piety?
In this month’s advice column, a reader asks how to balance independence and filial piety if they want to move out of their parents’ home.
Dear Kiki: I want to meet people from other backgrounds. How do I diversify my network?
In this month’s advice column, a reader asks for ways to broaden their social horizons and meet a more diverse group of people.
Dear Kiki: My roommate wants to break our COVID-19 agreement and see people outside our pod. What do I do?
In this month’s advice column, a reader feels anxious when their roommate asks to see more people outside of their COVID-19 bubble.
Dear Kiki: I resent my parents’ expectations over my career. What do I do?
In this month’s column, a reader struggles with balancing their parents’ expectations over their careers, and pursuing their own passions.
